"My boyfriend doesn't return my calls and I want to know why." Many women unfortunately wonder about this when they're in a dating relationship. It's frustrating to be with a great guy who just won't call you back when he says he will. Try as we might to unravel this confusing puzzle it's just not that easy. If you're with a man who does this it can leave you wondering whether he's as crazy about you as he says he is. What you need to do if this is becoming an issue in your relationship is to understand why your boyfriend doesn't call and what steps you need to be taking, starting today, to change that behavior so he'll call more often.